Are you aware that family is the
most important towards you?
Family comes together,for always and forever
In sickness and in health
in poverty or in wealth
Family comes together
whether all-seeing or in blindness
For always and forever
without any reasonanytime or any reason
Family,
they somehow find a way
for family to come together
because families are forever. ♥
ahem *winks*
ohya,do you ever wondered that why your sisters or brothers
attitude are so different even thou
you are grew in the same family?
i found an articles and u can try to
check it whether is it true or not !
FIRST BORN
Positive character :
natural leader,display responsible behavior and comfortable socialising with adults from an early age
Negative character :
demostrate perfectionist by putting pressure on themselve,
often moody,lack of sensitivity,bossy
Needs :
authority approval
Suggestion:
They have to know that it is okay for them to fail sometimes.
They need to be aware that it is okay that they are not the best all the time so long as they have tried theri best and that their significant authority figures[parents/teachers]would still love them regardless.
Positive character :
independent and competitive with the eldest siblings,can adapt to changes and acquire very good social skills,great listener,hate confrontation
Negative character :
may feel uncertain of self own abilities if the elder child is successful,not good in making decisions that would offend others,tend to blame themselves when others fail
Needs:
Sense of belonging
Suggestion :
Try to include second born children in all activities.
They are likely to be motivated by a cause and enjoy working with people that would give them a sense of belonging.
Positive character :
creative,unconventional,charming and adaptable,love to entertain and talk to others,make friends easily,may behave like only child
Negative character :
used to always getting their way,tend to get bored quickly,strong fear of rejection,self-centred,feeling disadvantaged in being the smallest and weakest
Needs :
attention for their efforts
Suggestion :
Last born children may be babyish such as crying,tattling or whining.
It is important that you must not get annoyed and give them extra tasks to make them feel helpful and allow them to become more mature.
They will often do anything to be noticed,so ensure you appreciate their efforts.
always the centre of attention,they often enjoy their position as it makes them feel special,sometime they can be really matured.
Negative character :
feel unfairly treated when not getting their own way,may refuse to cooperate,tough to handle,do not accept criticsms well,can be very demanding
Needs :
Recognition
Suggestion :
It is necessary for the only child to be aware that you know how hard they are trying and how hard they are doing.
natural leader,display responsible behavior and comfortable socialising with adults from an early age
Negative character :
demostrate perfectionist by putting pressure on themselve,
often moody,lack of sensitivity,bossy
Needs :
authority approval
Suggestion:
They have to know that it is okay for them to fail sometimes.
They need to be aware that it is okay that they are not the best all the time so long as they have tried theri best and that their significant authority figures[parents/teachers]would still love them regardless.
SECOND AND MIDDLE CHILD
Positive character :
independent and competitive with the eldest siblings,can adapt to changes and acquire very good social skills,great listener,hate confrontation
Negative character :
may feel uncertain of self own abilities if the elder child is successful,not good in making decisions that would offend others,tend to blame themselves when others fail
Needs:
Sense of belonging
Suggestion :
Try to include second born children in all activities.
They are likely to be motivated by a cause and enjoy working with people that would give them a sense of belonging.
YOUNGEST CHILD
Positive character :
creative,unconventional,charming and adaptable,love to entertain and talk to others,make friends easily,may behave like only child
Negative character :
used to always getting their way,tend to get bored quickly,strong fear of rejection,self-centred,feeling disadvantaged in being the smallest and weakest
Needs :
attention for their efforts
Suggestion :
Last born children may be babyish such as crying,tattling or whining.
It is important that you must not get annoyed and give them extra tasks to make them feel helpful and allow them to become more mature.
They will often do anything to be noticed,so ensure you appreciate their efforts.
THE ONLY CHILD
Positive character :always the centre of attention,they often enjoy their position as it makes them feel special,sometime they can be really matured.
Negative character :
feel unfairly treated when not getting their own way,may refuse to cooperate,tough to handle,do not accept criticsms well,can be very demanding
Needs :
Recognition
Suggestion :
It is necessary for the only child to be aware that you know how hard they are trying and how hard they are doing.
check it out! =)
